Day 3---Yeah Day 2 Went on a VACATION FACED A BULLY X2

Yep I went up 1foot....I stood up for myself!!  I finally squarely stood up to all those who are cutting me down.  One person actually had the same idea as my dad they thought if they belittle me then that would MAKE ME want to change....told her the complete opposite.  Her being a BULLY in the whole sense.  She took great offense to being called a BULLY but that is what she was and still is.  She didn't come out and actually say "I am sorry!" but that is why she is still a BULLY.  We sat and talked for about 30 minutes today.  Cleared the air about alot of things, but she still doesn't realize her words are FIERCE!!!

Facing a bully today gave me the strength to keep head up.  I talked with my MINI-ME today, miss her beyond words, She is doing her own "mini Biggest loser" things....She weighed in and went through that whole You started out at...... and you are now at.....(Allison watch it...She is coming after ya!!)  She is at my mom's for now...She went there weighing 145lbs.....she has lost 10lbs in one month....WOOOHOOOO!!!  She was telling me she told her cousin Ashley to stop calling her names about her weight....That hurt her feelings, they talked about name calling and feelings too so PROUD of her.

Being kind and nice to people is what we need.  I am hopefully raising my children to treat people equally and without judgment, not completely but hope enough that they wouldn't want to be judged either by others.  Everyone needs to think about what they are saying to others, but in fits of anger or frustration, we do.....LOVE THY NEIGHBOR AS THYSELF!!  That keeps sticking in my mind. 

Tonight is short....I am jello-legged and mushy mind....will continue more tomorrow.

"One Step, One path, One Road, One Trail, One Valley, One Mountain to Climb to Get to the PEAK of You!"